5 Things You Should Know About Preteens and Autism
5 Things You Should Know About Preteens and Autism
As children with autism grow and approach the preteen years, new challenges and developmental milestones emerge. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) can affect various aspects of a child’s life. From social interactions to sensory experiences and academic performance. The preteen years can be particularly complex. As children with autism navigate not only the typical changes of adolescence but also the unique aspects of their neurological development. Understanding what to expect during this stage can help parents, caregivers, and educators provide the necessary support to empower these children. Here are five essential things to know about preteens with autism and how you can support them during this transitional time.
1. Social Development Becomes More Complex
Social dynamics often shift significantly during the preteen years. With an increasing focus on peer relationships, group activities, and social hierarchies. For preteens with autism, these changes can be challenging. Many children with autism experience difficulties interpreting social cues, understanding unwritten social rules, and building friendships. As peer interactions become more nuanced, the gap between children with autism and their neurotypical peers can sometimes widen. Supporting social development in preteens with autism can involve structured social skills training, group activities that encourage cooperative play, or even one-on-one role-playing sessions to practice typical social scenarios. Encouraging participation in activities that align with their interests. Such as art, sports, or science clubs. This can also create opportunities for socialization in environments where they feel more comfortable and confident.
2. Sensory Sensitivities May Intensify
Sensory sensitivities are common in individuals with autism and can become even more pronounced during the preteen years. Sensitivity to lights, sounds, textures, or other sensory stimuli can make daily activities overwhelming. As preteens grow, they may encounter new sensory challenges. From bustling school hallways to more physically demanding activities in gym class. Additionally, hormonal changes during preadolescence can sometimes heighten sensory sensitivities, adding another layer of complexity. To support a preteen with autism who has sensory sensitivities, it’s essential to identify their specific triggers. And work together to create coping strategies. This might involve providing noise-canceling headphones, introducing sensory-friendly clothing, or creating a quiet space at home where they can retreat to recharge. Sensory integration therapy, which is designed to help individuals manage their sensory sensitivities, can also be beneficial for some preteens with autism.
3. Academic Challenges and Strengths Emerge
Preteen years are often marked by a shift in academic expectations. With more complex subjects, increased homework, and greater demands on organizational skills. For children with autism, these changes can bring both challenges and opportunities. Some preteens with autism may excel in certain subjects. Particularly those that involve structured, detail-oriented tasks, such as math or science. However, they may struggle with subjects requiring abstract thinking, such as reading comprehension or creative writing. Supporting a preteen with autism academically means identifying both their strengths and areas where they need additional help. Teachers and caregivers can collaborate to implement individualized learning plans that cater to their unique learning style. Visual aids, structured routines, and one-on-one assistance in specific subjects can enhance their academic experience. Encouraging them to pursue their areas of strength, while gently guiding them in more challenging areas, helps build both confidence and resilience.
4. Emotional Regulation Becomes Crucial
As preteens navigate the hormonal and emotional changes of adolescence, they often experience more intense emotions and moods. For children with autism, who may already find it challenging to interpret and express emotions, these changes can be especially overwhelming. They may struggle with frustration, anxiety, or sensory overload, which can lead to emotional outbursts or withdrawal in stressful situations. Helping preteens with autism develop emotional regulation skills is vital for their well-being. Teaching simple, practical techniques such as deep breathing, mindfulness, or grounding exercises can provide them with tools to manage overwhelming feelings. Social stories or visual aids that depict different emotions can also help them. Regular routines and a calm, supportive environment can further help them feel secure and manage their emotional states more easily.
5. Building Independence is Key
The preteen years are a time when many children begin developing a sense of independence. Learning new skills, and making choices for themselves. For preteens with autism, building independence can involve learning practical life skills. Such as managing a daily routine, taking responsibility for homework, or participating in family chores. While these tasks may seem straightforward, they can sometimes be challenging for children with autism. Often due to differences in executive functioning skills, such as planning and organizing. Parents and caregivers can foster independence by breaking down tasks into smaller, manageable steps. And using visual schedules to reinforce daily routines. Encouraging self-advocacy, where preteens learn to express their needs or preferences, is another essential skill. By providing them with guidance and the opportunity to make decisions, you can help them build confidence. And help prepare them for the increased responsibilities of adolescence and adulthood.
How Linden Neuropsychological Services Can Help
Navigating the preteen years with autism can be both challenging and rewarding. At Linden Neuropsychological Services, we are dedicated to empowering children with autism and other neurodevelopmental challenges to reach their full potential. With over 30 years of expertise in pediatric neuropsychology. Dr. Bonnee Price Linden and her team provide specialized assessment, treatment, and support tailored to the unique needs of each child. Our evidence-based interventions address social, academic, and emotional challenges. Offering a compassionate approach that supports both children and their families. Whether you’re seeking guidance on managing sensory sensitivities, enhancing social skills, or developing emotional regulation techniques, Linden Neuropsychological Services is here to help. With in-person and telehealth options available in New Jersey, New York, and Michigan, we are committed to making quality care accessible for every family. Reach out to us today to learn more about how we can support your child on their journey toward independence, resilience, and fulfillment!
